HAS YOUR WIFE CHEATED?
Find help, hope, and healing from your wife's affair.
Right Now The Stakes Are High
It's not fair. It's like you've been gut punched. At the same time, you have to
fight for your marriage, love your children, make huge financial decisions, and somehow keep your job. All of this while you can barely breathe.
Which Man Will You Be?
What you do right now matters.
Men who navigate this season poorly bury their pain and create lifelong problems:
Addictions
Unhealthy relationships
Distance from children
Low confidence
Financial
ruin
Men who go through this season intentionally can find a happy future:
Freedom from pain
Fulfilling relationships
Confidence
Purpose
Restoration
Whether you just found out or whether this happened to you years ago, you can find healing for your heart.
I Wrote This Book For You
I understand how you feel. When my wife cheated, I felt like my world had been turned upside down. I was disoriented. I felt like my world was falling apart.
When I went online to look for a book to help, nothing existed. There were plenty of books written for men who had cheated on their wives but nothing for men whose wives had cheated on them.
That's why I wrote this book. Drawing from my story and the stories of dozens of men, you'll find a practical guide to walk you through the process of healing, fighting for your family, and moving forward.
Help From Men Who Understand
When I found out my wife was cheating, I thought I was all alone. I didn't know any other men whose wife had cheated. You are not alone. I've been down this road and so have many of my friends. Wherever you are on your journey, we can help.
When I found out the first time I was crushed. I had literally brought me to my knees. I could hardly function. This was my worst nightmare. I remember thinking, “How could my sweet innocent wife do this?” This happens to other people not me.
I was devastated, the feelings of inadequacy crept back up and began taking over and controlling my thoughts. “You’re not good enough”, “You’re not man enough”, “This is why she won’t be intimate with you, because you can’t satisfy her”. The list goes on and I feel into a deeper depression blaming myself, that this was all my fault.
I took on a lot of guilt. I bought into the idea that it was my fault, that I needed to change, and that her actions were not her responsibility. I prayed a lot about it, because I didn't need God before, but I did need him to fix this.
From My Heart To Yours
At SheCheated, we know you are the kind of man who wants to lead a successful life and layout a happy future. However, the sucker punch of your wife’s affair has put all of that in jeopardy as you struggle to keep your head above water.
The problem is that you didn’t expect this. You don’t know what to do. Your heart is crushed. Somedays you can barely get out of bed. All the while, you have to keep your life in motion. You have to work. Maybe you have kids in the mix.
Which makes you feel a cocktail of emotions including anger, sadness, and depression. None of these are helpful.
Above all of this, you feel like you’re alone. After a long day of work, you come home to a quiet house, a poorly-furnished apartment, or a friend’s spare bedroom.
What do you do now? Binge-watching Netflix, playing Call of Duty until you can’t keep your eyes open, or drowning in a bottle may distract you from the pain, but it won’t heal it. Stalking your wife and obsessively texting her won’t help either. What do you do?
A Path To a Better Future
I understand. Even though over 10 years have passed since this first happened to me, when I remember how I felt, my stomach tightens and tears rise up behind my eyes. I remember collapsing on the floor. I remember the panic and frustration. I remember days where I could barely function. I remember spinning out of control while I stared at the ceiling of the living room in the now-empty house.
In the middle of all of it, I remember wondering how I would ever get my life back to “normal” or what normal could even be going forward.
Beyond my story, I’ve also heard the stories of dozens of men who have been down the same road. I’ve listened to their stories with tears in my eyes. I’ve seen some of them do well and craft a great future. I’ve also seen others make devastating choices did as much or more damage than their wife’s affair.
Here's My "Why"
That’s why I wrote the book, created the community, and built the courses. Basically, I asked myself the question, “What do I wish was there for me when I was going through this?”
Here’s How It Works.
I wrote a book. It includes the things I learned along my journey as well as things I learned from other men. It has been reviewed by counselors as well as men’s ministers.
Now, I’m guessing that you’re thinking one of two things.
1. I'm not a reader, Bryce
Many guys aren’t readers. I get it. However, right now my guess is that you're looking for answers. You'll find them in this book.
2. I Don't Want a Book Called "She Cheated" On My Coffee Table
Unless you're a counselor or paster, you might now want this book on your shelf.
That’s why in addition to being able to buy the book from Amazon and other bookstores, you can also download a digital copy of the book and the audio directly from this website. It’s discreet and you can get the book in your hands right away.
Beyond The Book
The book is just the starting place. What’s really going to help is having guys to walk with you through the process of healing. That’s why I created a private online group of men who have been through this. This community includes men who have been down the road of healing and rebuilding. So, you’ll be able to get both empathy and advice from men who understand the journey.
The Club No Man Wants To Be In
I know, this isn’t a club that anyone of us wanted to be a part of. But guess, what? You’re in the club. You might as well meet some of the other members! I the process, I believe you’ll be encouraged. Someday you may even become a coach inside the club to encourage other men.
Avoid the Pitfalls
I want you to avoid the pitfalls. For guys who are able to maintain their current marriage, many forgive their wife, welcoming her back to discover several months later that she’s back in the affair. For guys who get remarried, the divorce rates are terrible. Some guys go crazy in the process, making risky choices and finding themselves in a relationship with another woman just like their wife did. Some men simply stuff the pain, carrying it with them for the rest of their lives.
A Better Ending To Your Story
This doesn’t have to be your story. You can find a better path forward that finds healing for your pain, creates a strategy to fight for your family, and gives you a path forward.
